Various build and developer fixes, some optimizations (#2975)

* Various build and developer fixes, some optimizations

* Fix the linux build

* Fix afterpack

* Fix notarization variables

* Revert macos-notification-state changes from this PR

* Only build the tar for PRs

* Also ci

* Fix copy script

* Fix copy script more

* Remove @babel/cli

* Fix windows build

* Fix MAS build

patches/macos-notification-state+3.0.0.patch

@@ -0,0 +1,14 @@
+diff --git a/node_modules/macos-notification-state/package.json b/node_modules/macos-notification-state/package.json
+index 9a863a5..2e02960 100644
+--- a/node_modules/macos-notification-state/package.json
++++ b/node_modules/macos-notification-state/package.json
+@@ -5,7 +5,8 @@
+   "main": "lib/index.js",
+   "scripts": {
+     "preinstall": "node ensure-sdk.js",
+-    "test": "standard && mocha ./test/test.js"
++    "test": "standard && mocha ./test/test.js",
++    "install": "node-gyp rebuild"
+   },
+   "repository": "https://github.com/felixrieseberg/macos-notification-state",
+   "license": "MIT",